To became a good people we had to put in a lot of effort, but in the end, everything was worth it. In achieving success, it is not based solely on individual effort, but in team work. Nyadi kitai misti ngambi ulah sereta perangai kitai ka positif aja. Utai ka negatif nya kapa kitai ngingat ka. Ia ka negatif tapis nitih ka peneran adat ka patut.
Ko sempama jaku kitai urang ti bepikil mit bepikil pandak sigi bejaku ka urang bukai bejai pandan diri. Urang ti bepikil sederhana sigi bejaku ka siti-siti pengawa ka udah nyadi tauka bedau. Urang ti bepikil bisi penemu tinggi/meruan sigi bejaku ka pasal utai ti ngemanahka aja..bejaku pasal ka utai/pengawa ti tau ngasuh ngemansang pendiau diri sereta bejaku ka pasal penemu pengidup..penemu kena beridup.
Urang ti bepikil sempit bejaku ngemansaut ka penemu kurang mimit bejaku ngena runding..bejaku engka sengapa sebut..sengapa embal..urang bakatu selalu agi bejaku nitih keteleba jaku diri sereta suah mega nerima leka jaku ari urang bukai. Selalu ngenggai ka jaku urang bukai ari ka nambah ka penemu dalam jaku diri. Sida tu enggai bepikil panjai, bepikil jauh ka agi kelimpah ka ari ngaga diri enggau alasan ENGGAI!?Enda ibuh! Lembau! Lelak! Awak ka urang bukai bepikil dulu..!!
Sikap kitai ka suah bepikil sempit/mit ngujong ka kitai nuju jalai ka PENANGGUL. Ba siti-siti pengawa, sida tu enggai ngena peluang ti bisi ba diri empu kena ngemaju sereta ngemansang kadiri, sida tu sigi enda merati utai ko orang bukai kelimpah mending ka runding diri kena ngemansang/ngemajuka diri empu. Pendiau pengidup kitai enda ulih berubah nyema kitai enggai berunding ngena runding ka manah tauka runding ka betul. Semua utai ti kedeka kitai sigi enda ulih digempung dikembuan ka kitai magang.
Pengelebih kitai mensia ari jelu tu ianya kitai bisi pikil/buah runding kena berunding. Kitai mensia ka enda ngena buah runding lebuh berunding sigi rugi..retinya kitai enda besyukur enggau runding diberi Tuhan kelimpah ka kitai enggai ngempu "PEMERI" ti paling besai ari Iya (Tuhan). Sida tu sigi enda layak nerima pengidup ka meruan sereta mansang. Runding (Minda) kitai ulih "berfikir tanpa had sempadan penggunaan minda”, ko laut.
Belajar meh kitai bepikil enggau runding tebuka. Runding ka tebuka ulih meri runding sereta penemu ka betul enggau salah, nyadi ka pemansang lebih manah agi."Dengan cara itu juga mampu membudayakan pemikiran yang kritis".
Aram meh kitai muai antu kepapas, antu begedi, antu pemenchi ti agi besarang, betansang dalam ati kitai Iban
Uji bacha sereta betati ka buah penemu/runding dibaruh tu:
1. Build Confidence - Identify your abilities and weaknesses together, accept them build on them and do the best with what you have.
2. Eat right, Keep fit - A balanced diet, exercise and rest can help you to reduce stress and enjoy life.
3. Make Time for Family and Friends - These relationships need to be nurtured; if taken for granted they will not be there to share life's joys and sorrows.
4. Give and Accept Support - Friends and family relationships thrive when they are "put to the test".
5. Create a Meaningful Budget - Financial problems cause stress. Over-spending on our "wants" instead of our "needs" is often the culprit.
6. Volunteer - Being involved in community gives a sense of purpose and satisfaction that paid work cannot.
7. Manage Stress - We all have stressors in our lives but learning how to deal with them when they threaten to overwhelm us will maintain our mental health.
8. Find Strength in Numbers - Sharing a problem with others who have had similar experiences may help you find a solution and will make you feel less isolated.
9. Identify and Deal with Moods - We all need to find safe and constructive ways to express our feelings of anger, sadness, joy and fear.
10. Learn to Be at Peace with Yourself - Get to know who you are, what makes you really happy, and learn to balance what you can and cannot change about yourself.
"Fear your fears, deal with your fears, overcome your fears, and let the winner in you win!. Dream whatever you desire to dream, go wherever you wish, seek whatever you desire....................................." Believe in yoursef, work together each others, your teanmates, follow the system, rules, be determine, and never give up!. Keep up the good work and keep on achieving!" Thank you.
